The Classical Ideal
In classical Greece, sophrosyne (" soh-froh-soo'-neh ") referred to excellence of character and soundness of mind in a well-balanced individual. This complex ideal has no direct translation into English. Its roots suggest a bringing together (syne) of the qualities of wisdom (sophia). It conveys the idea of happiness (in a proper philosophic sense) derived from:
temperance in desires -- "nothing in excess"
self awareness -- "know thyself"
modesty (self confident humility, the opposite of arrogance)
relatedness to the whole of self and society
respect for excellence
respect for human nature, its limits, its balance
self-restrained freedom
obedience to the laws of harmony and proportion
love of truth-beauty-goodness
wisdom (clear discernment based on broad knowledge, including self knowledge)
the qualities giving rise to true charm and charisma